I think that couples have to be hyper aware of this distinction when they are doing their research. When you decide to have a SDE, make sure you ask the company for a SDE sample instead of a Highlight. I've heard a few companies have problems with their couples because they were not explained the difference. Couples assume the SDE and Highlight are the same, and when they watch a company's Highlight videos online they assume this is how their SDE will look. This is false advertising!